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Videos · May 29, 2023

Supporting Mental Health and Rediscovering Joy

In a heartfelt conversation last month, Liya and I delved into her mental health journey and the support expected from us as her parents. She courageously shared her struggles, including the loss of interest in activities she once loved. Through therapy, medication, and unwavering support, Liya has been gradually reclaiming her joy. Last weekend, witnessing her in her element, enjoying horse riding with a radiant smile, filled our hearts with pride. While it’s a continuous journey, we are proud of her strength and resilience. Throughout our journey, we have come across three significant revelations. Rediscovering passions, the immense strength of support, and how small victories pave the way for great triumphs.

Rediscovering Passions:

Liya’s journey toward healing has involved rediscovering the activities that used to bring her joy. With therapy and the right support, she has been able to slowly reconnect with her passions. Horse riding, in particular, has played a significant role in her recovery, allowing her to find solace and regain a sense of purpose. Seeing her embrace her love for this activity has been truly heartwarming.

The bond between horse and rider goes beyond words; it is a deep connection that transcends the limitations of language. As Liya enters the stables and finds herself in the presence of these majestic creatures, a sense of calm and purpose envelops her. The rhythmic sound of hooves and the gentle sway of the horse beneath her serve as a gentle reminder of the beauty and harmony that exist in the world.

The partnership between horse and rider becomes a metaphor for her journey toward mental well-being. As the way she learns to trust, communicate, and synchronize her movements with the horse’s grace. Through horse riding, Liya has found solace, serenity, and a renewed sense of purpose. The bond forged between her and these gentle creatures has provided her with a source of emotional support and an outlet for self-expression. The challenges and triumphs experienced during each ride parallel the obstacles she faces in her own life, fostering a sense of resilience and empowerment.

The Power of Support:

Throughout Liya’s journey, the unwavering support of loved ones has been instrumental. By providing a nurturing environment and standing by her side, we have witnessed her strength and determination firsthand. It serves as a reminder that support, understanding, and patience are crucial elements in supporting someone’s mental health journey.

In times of uncertainty and doubt, Liya’s loved ones have been a beacon of understanding and empathy. Offering a safe space for her to express her thoughts and emotions without judgment. They have patiently listened, providing a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on during moments of vulnerability. Their unwavering belief in her capabilities has acted as a catalyst for her personal growth. This inspires her to push beyond her perceived limitations.

Through the ups and downs of Liya’s journey, her loved ones have never wavered in their commitment to her well-being. They have celebrated her small victories, recognizing their significance in her overall progress. These moments of triumph, though seemingly modest, have served as steppingstones towards her greater achievements.

The journey has taught us that support for mental health is not merely a passive act. It is an active and intentional effort. It requires compassion, patience, and a deep understanding of the complexities of mental health. Liya’s loved ones have gone above and beyond, educating themselves and seeking resources to better support her. They have shown us that true support extends beyond words of encouragement. It is a commitment to fostering an environment that nurtures growth, resilience, and self-discovery.

Liya’s story serves as a powerful reminder that no one should face their mental health journey alone. The presence of a strong support system can make all the difference. Providing a foundation of love and acceptance from which an individual can heal, thrive, and ultimately find their path to triumph.

Small Victories, Great Triumphs:

Recovery is not linear, but rather a series of small victories that accumulate into significant triumphs. Liya’s progress serves as a testament to this. While there may be ups and downs, witnessing her slowly fight her way back and rekindle her love for life’s joys fills us with immense pride. It reinforces the importance of celebrating every step forward, no matter how small.

Throughout her journey, Liya has experienced moments of both immense strength and vulnerability. There have been times when the road ahead seemed daunting, and setbacks threatened to overshadow her progress. However, through sheer determination and the unwavering support of her loved ones, she has found the courage to keep fighting and made her mental health get better.

Witnessing Liya’s gradual resurgence, as she rekindles her love for life’s joys, fills us with an overwhelming sense of pride. From the simplest pleasures to the more profound connections, she has learned to find solace and beauty in the little things. The sparkle in her eyes as she rediscovers her passions serves as a reminder that even the smallest steps forward can hold immeasurable significance.

Celebrating each and every step of her journey has become a crucial part of the process. By acknowledging and rejoicing in even the tiniest achievements, we create a positive momentum that propels her further. It reinforces the notion that no victory is too small to be celebrated. They all contribute to the greater tapestry of her recovery.

Liya’s story teaches us the value of resilience and perseverance.

It serves as a beacon of hope for those navigating their own paths of healing. Reminding them that setbacks are not failures but rather opportunities for growth. Each setback is an invitation to learn, adapt, and continue pushing forward.

As we bear witness to Liya’s journey, we are reminded that recovery is not a destination but a continuous process of self-discovery and growth. It is through the accumulation of small victories. Each one marking a step closer to reclaiming a fulfilling life, that true triumph emerges. And in celebrating these victories, we create an environment of love, support, and inspiration that empowers Liya. As well as others in the same situation as her to embrace their own transformative journeys.

A Journey of Resilience:

Liya’s story is a powerful testament to resilience and the human spirit’s ability to overcome adversity. Her courage in sharing her experiences and her determination to reclaim her happiness inspires others on their own mental health journeys and raises awareness for support. It serves as a reminder that healing is possible and that progress, no matter how gradual, should be celebrated.

Throughout her journey, Liya has shown immense strength and resilience. She has faced her challenges head-on, refusing to let them define her. Through a combination of therapy, medication, and the unwavering support, she has embarked on a path of healing and self-discovery. While progress may have been gradual at times, every step forward has been a testament to her unwavering commitment to her well-being.

Eric and I couldn’t be prouder of the incredible strides she has made. Witnessing her resilience, determination, and the joy she is slowly rediscovering in life fills our hearts with immense joy and gratitude. Her journey has taught us the true value of support and patience. It has reminded us that healing is not a linear process but a courageous and often winding journey. Healing is where each step, no matter how small, is a cause for celebration.

I pray Liya’s story is a beacon of hope for those who may be struggling in silence.

For those afraid to reach out for help. By sharing her experiences, she shines a light on the path to recovery and empowers others to seek the support they deserve. Her journey serves as a reminder that healing is possible. That there is strength in vulnerability, and that progress, no matter how incremental, is worth acknowledging and celebrating.

May Liya’s story inspire others to persevere in their own battles. To embrace the journey toward mental well-being, and to seek the support and resources necessary to thrive. Let us continue to break the silence surrounding mental health. Let’s foster a culture of understanding and compassion, and uplift one another as we navigate the complexities of our individual journeys.

I couldn’t be prouder of her strength and determination. This experience has taught us the importance of support, patience, and celebrating the small victories along the way. May her story inspire others to persevere and embrace the journey toward mental well-being.

*** If you or someone you know has a mental illness, is struggling emotionally, or has concerns about their mental health, there are ways to get help. Use these resources to find help for you, a friend, or a family member.

You might wanna read: Mental Health In Liya’s Own Words

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